Is there an audiobook of Talking to Strangers?

Yes. Talking to Strangers has an Audible audiobook edition, narrated by Malcolm Gladwell.

How long is the Talking to Strangers audiobook?

The Talking to Strangers audiobook runs 8 hr 57 min.

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Our score

4.2/ 5

Excellent

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EDITION PUBLISHEDSeptember 2019

Genres

Non-Fiction Psychology Sociology

Themes

Deception and the instinct to believeJudgment and first impressionsPolicing, training, and institutional failureHow place and context shape behavior

Talking to Strangers

Name: Talking to Strangers
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Author: Malcolm Gladwell

Malcolm Gladwell

Malcolm Gladwell's Talking to Strangers works through Cold War double agents, Bernie Madoff, a wrongful murder conviction in Italy, and a Texas traffic stop to ask why humans are so consistently terrible at reading people they have just met. Reported psychology built out of cases where the misreading cost somebody everything.

The Review

Our take

A Texas state trooper pulls a young woman over for changing lanes without signaling. She is annoyed, and she says so. He asks her to put out her cigarette. She asks why she has to put out a cigarette in her own car. Under two minutes later she is out of the vehicle and on the ground under arrest, and three days after that she is dead in a county jail cell. Gladwell opens Talking to Strangers on that roadside and comes back to it at the end, and the four hundred pages between are one long attempt to explain how a piece of routine traffic paperwork got there.

Three ideas carry the load. Default to truth, taken from the psychologist Tim Levine, holds that people are built to believe what they are told, and that the believing stops only when doubts pile past a personal threshold. The transparency problem is the assumption that a face is an honest readout of the mind behind it, which is why a nervous innocent looks guilty and a composed fraud looks fine. Coupling is the finding that behavior sticks to specific places and conditions rather than traveling with the person. Gladwell runs these through Chamberlain at Berchtesgaden, a CIA Cuba operation that turned out to be staffed end to end by Havana's people, Madoff and the analyst nobody listened to, Amanda Knox, Sylvia Plath and Britain's switch away from town gas.

Practical carryover is real, and narrow, and worth being precise about. There is no program here. Nothing to run on Monday morning except one correction to one bad habit: the confidence that you can tell. For anyone whose work involves deciding whether a stranger is lying, and that includes hiring managers, judges, admissions officers, and every police officer in the country, the book takes that instinct apart with evidence instead of scolding. The coupling chapters are the most immediately usable material in the book. If a behavior is welded to a place, then changing the place is the intervention and arguing with the person is not, which is a genuinely different way to think about suicide prevention, crime hot spots, and a dozen other problems. The policing section follows that logic to its unhappy conclusion: an experiment that worked inside one high-crime square mile of Kansas City got scaled across whole cities, detached from the conditions that made it work, and produced the traffic stop the book started with.

Gladwell is a synthesizer, and the research is other people's. Levine's lab work, the bridge-barrier data, the Kansas City gun experiment. He credits the sources, but a reader who wants the underlying rigor will have to go get it, and some case chapters push the frame further than it comfortably reaches. The Sandusky and campus-assault chapters drew real pushback for treating default to truth as a sufficient account of institutional failures that had plainer causes sitting in plain view. Anyone who followed the Revisionist History season built around this book will recognize a large share of the material in roughly the same order. And the guidebook the subtitle implies never quite arrives; the closing counsel amounts to patience and humility, which is correct and thin.

Why you should read

Readers who liked Outliers and want the darker Gladwell
Case-study nonfiction over abstract social science
Anyone whose job is sizing up strangers fast
Curiosity about deception, misjudgment, and police encounters

What to expect

Braided case studies, not a step-by-step framework
Reported history and psychology with no self-help program
One famous traffic stop bookending the whole argument
A few chapters that overreach and drew real pushback

What stays with a reader is the tape. Gladwell returns to the roadside recording and walks it line by line, the trooper escalating on his training and the driver escalating on principle, each one certain the other started it, neither able to see what the other brought to the exchange. As a unified thesis the book overreaches in places. As ninety seconds of audio slowed down until every wrong assumption inside it becomes visible, it does something popular psychology almost never manages, which is to make an abstraction hurt.

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Our verdict

4.2/ 5

Excellent

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What is Talking to Strangers about?: A Texas state trooper pulls a young woman over for changing lanes without signaling. She is annoyed, and she says so. He asks her to put out her cigarette. She asks why she has to put out a cigarette in her own car. Under two minutes later she is out of the vehicle and on the ground under arrest…
Is Talking to Strangers worth reading?: We scored Talking to Strangers 4.2 out of 5. Malcolm Gladwell's Talking to Strangers works through Cold War double agents, Bernie Madoff, a wrongful murder conviction in Italy, and a Texas traffic stop to ask why humans are so consistently terrible at reading people they have just met. Reported psychology built out of…